i have an example project here, that tries 6 different implementations, attempts to make the focus ring 3 pix wide. None of them work on windows, and only one of them PARTIALLY works on mac. What i want is the style you get around a text edit on mac, but i want that style on ALL widgets, and i want it on windows too.

anyone have any idea how i can accomplish this?

Please see the example project. I've set it up so the same code can be run on both mac and windows (use file sharing to run both at once).

-dave